Misscarilee, 52

don't hate me cause I'm fat I like to chat with someone for awhile before exchanging #'s or addresses. I would like to develop a sense about the guy I am communicating with before I agree to meeting up. Sometimes this only takes a few hours, or days. I feel now days its a safer way to get to know the person before meeting. Yes, of course, all of it could be lies.But I still look for the good in everyone and like to give someone a chance or two to try.I like to bake, watch movies, and go for drives or just sit under the stars drinking a margarita.I am looking for an honest, funny, sincerely open minded male who will compliment the other half of me that is severely lacking. I am funny, smart, and like to go with the flow, rather than rock the boat. I appreciate and enjoy life and all the little things that make a day worth waking up for. someone who is honest, open, sincere and can make me laugh.I appreciate opinions,as long as I can voice mine. I need my equal, not my better half. My man will understand that we both will have some baggage, but how we choose to carry that baggage is the key. I would like to build the trust, and feel secure with my man just by looking at him.I have 1 child who lives with me permanently. I work full time. Im a bit busy but never too busy to chat or to go on a date. Yes my son does require a little more of my time than a typical child per se, so I hope that if whoever responds to my ad will understand this. I am not looking for a father for my son. But I would like to have a good role model for him to see and interact with everyday. Since he was born, it has been just him and I for the greater share of his life. I haven't brought home very many men for him to meet, because I feel I need to be particular. This too needs to be understood.